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How Did Our Mothers Survive?

One day last week it was raining.  One of those days, where the playground is too soggy, and the kids are bouncing off the walls.  One of those days, that defines why being a mom is the world’s toughest job.  For their sanity and mine, I packed them in the car, drove to one of the local inflatables play places, happily forked over the entrance price, and let them jump off all that energy.  

As I refereed their play, I started thinking about what my mom would have done on a day like today.  Honestly, I have no idea.  There were no inflatables places.  There wasn’t Nick Jr., either.  Heck, the McDonald’s Happy Meal didn’t even debut until I was in elementary school.  

Yes, some things are definitely harder for moms today.  We can no longer say “go outside and play all day, I’ll call you for dinner.”  With 200 channels on TV, we have to monitor everything our kids watch.  Even when the TV is off, we have to check what they are seeing online.  Then, there is the entire scheduling nightmare created by infinite extracurricular activities that our moms didn’t need to juggle.

For all the additional challenges of being a parent today, the world of consumer marketing has provided some marvelous inventions to make parenting just a little bit simpler. In honor of the millions of inventions to help out moms, here is a list of a few favorites.  

Disposable Diapers:  I know they aren’t good for the environment, but I am so glad I don’t have to use (and ultimately wash) cloth diapers.

Indoor Playgrounds:  It can turn a rainy day frown upside down.  From restaurants to the mall, indoor playgrounds are everywhere these days.  

Spill-Proof Cups:  There are already an uncountable number of spills in my life.  I can’t imagine life without spill proof cups.  

Baby Monitors:  These are great to keep an ear (or an eye with the video type) on babies all the time.  Even better, if I hide it well, I can use it to listen in when my girls are teenagers.  I’m only half kidding on the last part.

Portable DVD Players:  It is the first thing I pack for every trip.  It is more important than underwear or a toothbrush.  

TIVO:  As my neighbor says, TIVO is the world’s cheapest babysitter.  I have age appropriate shows available around the clock.  It is the best monthly fee I pay.

Internet:  Although it is one of the things of which to be wary for little eyes; the internet is a godsend for parents.  With a click of the mouse, I can answer almost every parenting question, from tantrums to tonsillitis.  If only the Internet could cook and do laundry.

My list could continue for pages and pages, but you get the point.  There are some great items that make life with kids a little bit easier.  Thanks to all the folks that invented them. I sure do appreciate it.  For all the moms who came before me, I truly don’t know who you did it.  

Gigi appears every Friday on TriangleMom2Mom. To read more about Gigi, go to her blog Stroller Lane

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Gigi Harrell

Gigi is a TriangleMom2Mom featured blogger, appearing every Friday.

She's a mom of two daughters, ages 4 and 1½. Gigi’s path to a career in writing took the scenic route. She graduated from Georgia Tech with a degree in Industrial Engineering and a husband-to-be. After a few years of work and lots of play in California, they returned to their roots in the South. They landed in North Carolina where she graduated from UNC-Chapel Hill with an MBA. She worked in marketing for a large multinational company, but career priorities changed with the arrival of her girls. She stepped off the corporate track to start her own business. She now works full-time as a mom and part-time running her business and writing freelance. Gigi lives in Cary with her husband and two daughters balancing the havoc and harmony of everyday life.

Posted on July 25, 2008 by gigiharrell.

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by gold 1 yr. ago.

What did moms do in the "olden days"? I pulled a chair up to the sink filled the sink with water and my three year old played for a good hour filling tupperware. Then we woulkd make play dough using flour and water and spend a while on the process and creating "sculpture". It wasn't all that bad to have a day when there wasn't any pressure to go anywhere. Children and parents today are so scheduled they can't figure out what to do with free time.

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by eripley 1 yr. ago.

Amen to that, gold. Thank you for that perspective. 

What did housewives do in the olden days? They let their kids play outside —UNSUPERVISED — until darkness brooded over the suburbs. They didn't fret over Junior's boo-boo, drill the kid with flash cards or chauffeur kids to competitive traveling soccer league games. The result: A generation of independent, confident, creative, self-sufficient women who earned engineering degrees and MBA's from prestigious universities.

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by dineer526 1 yr. ago.

The portable DVD player is what keeps our long car trips sane. That and the fact that we can start out really early and both kids sleep until well after noon. We have actually stopped for lunch and had a child complain that she didn't want to wake up!

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