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Milo and Otis and Sadness and Tears. Or, Movie Night.
The frightful weather of the past few days has kept us out of the pool and trapped in the house with regular breaks for dog walks and firefly-trapping at dusk.
But boredom has set in, and in a moment of weakness I traded DVDs with a friend: my Fantasia for her Otis and Milo. I had medium-high hopes for Otis and Milo, for a child that lives in a TV-free household, ANY video viewing is a huge treat, even old You Tube bloopers. I mean, what could be more hilarious to a six-year-old than someone falling off a dock?
I had no worries about Flipper experiencing any kind of distress at the animals and their adventures. This is the kid that chirpily tosses the "It's nature's way!" in the direction of my fleeing back as I hastily depart from an elephant documentary that shows the death of a baby elephant.
I, however, was wrong. Movies like this one, The Incredible Journey, etc., anthropomorphize animals to a degree that generates emotions. They have to or the movies wouldn't work.
By the second (brief) encounter with a bear she was tearfully hiding her head under a pillow. By the time the little pug was just about to give up the ghost in a blizzard scene that looked like a page from a Jack London book, she had had enough. Tears, tears, tears, cry, cry cry - distressed at the implied snowy Popsicle the dog was about to become, but more upset at how long good buddies Milo and Otis had been apart.
Poor Flipper!!!
My consoling words fell on deaf ears, and ultimately I just snapped off the lights and let her fall asleep. Maybe we'll try again in a few years. Until then, You Tube "funny cats" might be as close as she gets to The Incredible Journey.
Note: Yes, she does like Fantasia - but not the terrified, stampeding dinosaurs.
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Comments
We also don't watch much TV or many movies so anything is a big treat even the same old Muppets on YouTube for the billionth time. My daughter did break down sobbing last month when we rented the Shirley Temple version of Heidi. It was pretty scary what with people trying to sell Heidi to the Gypsies and tearing her away from her grandpa. I think I'd forgotten the whole story.
My daughter was very sensitive to scary movies for many many years. She got especially traumatized by Polar Express when she was three years old and had nightmares for months. She even got frightened turing Poohs Halloween movie. She's finally gotten over some of the sensitiivity to movies, but it was only in the past year or so.
I remember the delight and anticipation I had as I began to read The Secret Garden, one of my favorites from childhood. Haley was about 5 or 6. As I started reading, I remember that the heroine's parents die of cholera in the early chapters. Although it unnerved me, I soldiered on and my daughter dealt with it fine with some explanations about how medicine was not so advanced back then, etc.
I think the same content in a realistic movie would have been very disturbing to a child so young!
We thought that the Bad News Bears would be funny for our kids. Until 5 minutes into it...we had never realized how horribly inappropriate it was....what were our parents thinking?