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More loss of innocence (mine)
I was casting about on the Internet, searching for something to spark my interest that pertains to parenting, but isn't celebrity or octuplet-centered. Tough going out there right now! Anyway, I stumbled across this website: www.commercialfreechildhood.org.
Since the fact that it offered me a chance to "vote" on the worst toy offering of the yea r- and I use the word "toy" loosely - I couldn't pass it up. As I had suspected ... I am pretty out of touch with, well, almost everything in the toy world. Perhaps blessedly so.
It has long been a private disappointment that Lego is so obscenely commercialized, tied to every single action movie that exists, even ones that are not for kids, like The Dark Night, which was rated PG-13. But Lego seems to be perfectly happy jumping on the Batman bandwagon!
What happened to Lego? Why are they all sold in kits, kits that show the potential within, as it were, instead of letting kids come up with what they think some rocket or car looks like without the benefit of the packaging into a "kit?" And, why do they seem targeting specifically at boys?
But ... moving on. Does anyone besides me remember Book Fairs at public schools? Or when you took home a teeny catalog from Scholastic, ordered some books, and then, weeks later, your teacher would distribute them to eager students?
Now, Scholastic still sells books, but they also sell Wii games (the M&M version, no less), Hannah Montana jewelry and lip gloss. To elementary school students.
What is happening out there, right under our noses? When did children become these endless sources of money for lip gloss, of all things, and when did schools throw out the welcome mat to these companies? Are schools really so poor that they can justify letting McDonald's provide their report cards, which is what happened in Florida.
I guess the saddest thing is the fact that so many toys now are tied to something else, and so they become ads in and of themselves. Do you ever think about how hard it is to buy your child just regular products WITHOUT some irksome character like Dora or Elmo?
And how we, as consumers, are A-OK with Disney everything in our homes, right on down to the toothpaste beside the sink, which is used after the Dora potty seat and before the Ariel nightgown ... it never ends. But I really, really wish it would.
I wish it bothered more people, I hope that parents are involved in schools enough to make their complaints known, as did one mother in Seminole County, Fla., who was incensed enough at the McDonald's report card, that offered a Happy Meal for good grades, that she gathered 2000 signatures, and ended that particular advertising campaign.
And, if you feel so inclined, check out the Commercial Free Childhood website: food for thought, not a report card.
Leigh appears Fridays on TriangleMom2Mom. Read more about Leigh at her blog Flipper and Me.


Comments
I really admire that Mom in Seminole County, FL!!! The only way to make a dent in it is to use our voice. Mine's kind of gone. I was working full-time when my kids were little and had a laissez faire attitude about those things. But it wasn't as bad back then either. It keeps getting worse partially because people are taping TV shows, so commercials aren't as effective. Companies are struggling to find new means of advertising...I guess that includes the big M on report cards. The Scholastic Book Fairs (I've worked at quite a few over the years) are ridiculous. You practically have to dig through all the pencils, purse, games and other crap to get to the books!!!
I remember carefully selecting the two books I was allowed on the Scholastic order form and impatiently waiting for them to arrive. And when they did...it was so exciting!!!
I totally agree! Our charter school doesn't allow any "characters" on anything brought into the school. This includes, shoes, socks, backbacks, lunchboxes, food items, books that the kids bring. It is SO hard to find stuff that is "fun" but not characters. I even have a hard time finding Gogurts for there lunchboxes. It was even hard to find dixie cups for the valentine party without cartoon characters.
I really like that the kids are inundated with characters at school. I have found that just not having that additional influence has really helped. They don't see them all them time.
I totally agree about scholastic. In the article posted on the site earlier this week, scholastic said that they were trying to get kids to read so that's why they had all that stuff. My thought was that I was fine if the toys and games and pens were based on BOOK characters to get kids into reading, but they have no relation to books.
I also totally agree about Legos! Lincoln Logs are the same way, just kids now. I want the kids to feel that they can create and design not just follow directions.
Great post.