I have recently seen a few TV shows where mothers are complaining about life as a mother. I can't for the life of me understand why these women have kids if that dont enjoy the good and the bad of motherhood. It makes no sense to me. I have a beautiful daughter that I love more that my own life. I almost died due to sever pregnancy complations. My heart stopped during delivery, and my kidneys liver and bladder had began to shut down. Now I ask you WHY would anyone put their own life at risk if the do not want to be in the motherhood. I dont get it. I would do anything for my little girl. How can you hate things about motherhood when you know that its not always going to be fun going into it. If your woman enough to lay down to create the child be woman enough to take care of your baby!!!!!