I have two daughters ages 10 and almost 14. I have been thinking about what I want them to have/know before they leave home. What types of knowledge and skills should they have? What experiences should they have had?

I have a few things in mind, and I am interested in hearing what others have to add to my "to do list."

1. They should know how to swim.
2. They should automatically write thank you letters without being prodded.
3. They should have had a first aid and CPR course
4. They should know how to check the tire pressure, the oil and transmission fluids, and change a tire.
5. They should know how to cut the breaker to a circuit in the house, and how to change the HVAC filters.
6. How to read a map (a real one, not a GPS system)
7. How to tell time on a real clock and how to make change without a calculator.
8. How to manage a checking account and avoid unnecessary debt.
9. They should have their own basic tool kit to include a hammer, pliers, measuring tape, a flashlight and a screwdriver. A drill would be nice, too.
10. They should know how to cook a few basic meals that don't involve a microwave.
11. They should have a basic sewing kit with a few colors of thread, some needles and pins, and some scissors. They should know how to replace a button and extra bonus points for being able to hem a pair of pants.

There are a few movies I think my daughters should see, too:

The Color Purple
Schindler's List
On Golden Pond

What would you add?